The Peace Mirror

“Our most challenging and difficult relationships are the greatest gifts we have to attain peaceful lives”

I know this statement might seem confusing at first because this is not the usual experience for most of us. Generally when we encounter unpleasant situations with people we believe are judgmental, closed, and difficult we tend to avoid them or limit our exposure. This is understandable because we all just want to feel safe, validated, accepted and loved in our relationships. 

The problem is we cannot control others’ actions, behaviors or thoughts…try as we may! We end up doubling down on our control tactics (codependent), fighting others to get what we want (combative), or we simply stay away (avoidant). Thus we experience internal conflict because we care about these people and desire close,  loving and safe relationships with them. 

The result? 

We are left feeling frustrated, resentful, angry, victimized, ostracized, lonely and afraid. Although we believe we don’t have any other choice, at the end of the day we lack what we truly want…peace.

ALL our experiences can be peaceful and loving. However, a healthy perception resulting in lasting change requires us to correctly focus our mind and our actions on the outcome of peace only. 

“Every moment of everyday we create our experiences through our thoughts, beliefs, and resulting choices and behaviors.”

Unbeknownst to us, the majority of our beliefs live in our subconscious mind where we remain consciously unaware, yet it impacts and informs our daily behaviors and experiences. We then take our (subconscious) beliefs of who we believe we are and project it out onto others. When other people react to us and behave in ways that cause us emotional pain, we feel angry, resentful and upset. We cannot understand why they won’t give us what we believe we need. 

Our world conditions us to believe that what we need to be happy exists outside of our true selves…relationships, money, our physical bodies, real estate and status are a few examples. We exhaust ourselves pursuing these goals only to end up discouraged, disillusioned and unhappy.

Ironically we fight with and attempt to control each other to get what we believe we need to attain true and lasting peace. This perspective prolongs our suffering

Is there another way?

Yes…There is a path to peace that provides you the choice to live each moment in gratitude, unconditional love, and contentment. All that is required is your willingness to adopt a new perspective.

Create true peace through the unique perspective of The Peace Mirror

When we choose to see others’ behaviors as a mirror to reveal our own subconscious mind, we can respond to them with gratitude and love only. The Peace Mirror helps us release all unworthy self beliefs that exist inside of us. From this perspective we can love our fellow humans for aiding our healing in this way, creating an alternative to conflict and building successful and joyful relationships. 

Learn how working with the mirror of relationships can transform even the most frustrating experiences into healthy, joyful and loving relationships with~ 

Yourself

ALL relationships ~ Family of origin  | Family of creation | Love/romantic | Friendships | Co-workers | Co-parents | Acquaintances | Strangers

Your society | Your world

Your Higher Power  | Source/Origin Energy | Universe | Divine Energy | God | Your Higher Self

How do I get started?

To begin this journey, create a list of the people in your life with whom you have unresolved issues. 

Next, write down the reasons for the conflict you feel when thinking about them: Here are a few to get you started:

Resentment

Anger

Betrayal

Guilt

Shame

Disconnect 

Discomfort

Fear

Then call me and I will teach you a unique perspective that is 180 degrees from what you’ve been taught to believe. With this new perspective you will no longer be at the mercy of what you cannot control and instead live fully empowered with what you can…a brand new perception leading to true, authentic and lasting (self) love.

Stephanie ~

310-804-6060

Stephanie@Thepeacemirror.com

 I offer the following sessions:

* Remote sessions for individuals ~ $85/hour

* Equine joint sessions for couples & pairs with Kim Seng ~ $120 per person

* Yoga sessions for groups with Katie Huemer (call for pricing)

* Conflict resolution for businesses (call for pricing)